Friday, March 8, 2013

The Art of Stress Management

Stress has forever been part of the story of mankind. Stress was born the day that Adam was put into a deep sleep and his rib removed to create Eve. (Kidding) If you look through the Bible it is impossible to find a Bible character who did not deal with circumstances that would bring great stress. Can you imagine Abraham's stress as he insisted it was the right move to uproot his family and leave Ur. Can you imagine Joseph's stress after he was falsely accused of raping his bosses wife. Can you imagine Moses' stress as the Israelites would not stop complaining to him about every last problem. Jesus was under such stress that he sweat drops of blood.

All of us have stress! Different seasons of life bring different levels of stress, but the underlying issue is always there in some form. (Except when you are on vacation in Hawaii without kids) Whether it be school, career, marriage, kids, money, or health stress in a part of life. I cannot say that I always carry my stress well, but there are some things that I am learning.

Pray! I don't say this because I am a pastor, and I don't even say this out of religious obligation. I say this in the most raw, unritualistic way possible. Take the time just to lay stuff out before God. It is like a release valve. It brings perspective and it brings relief.

Play! I have things that I do that drain me, and I have things I do that recharge me. If I am stressed it is because I am doing too much of what drains me and not enough of what recharges me. If I am feeling particularly stressed I will take a ride on my motorcycle or go to my secret spot and shoot my gun. I also take the time to retreat with my family from time to time. This gives time to relax and it gives a light at the end of the tunnel during stress filled times. There are also people in my life that when I am around them they recharge my batteries.

Push! I do not back down on my purpose. If Satan sees that stress will get you to give up on things that are important (ministry, family time, church) he will make sure you always have just enough stress to keep you away from the significant parts of your life. When stressed I minister more passionately and study more fervently just to make Satan mad. I evaluate and make sure I am pushing in the important areas and letting go of the unimportant areas.

There are other things I should do like exercise, but I watch TV instead. I find a good workout of my thumb on the remote as I change the channel gives me a solid workout. Oh, my staff tells me that I am a stress eater, but we won't get into that.

Anyway, the art of stress management is a work progress in my life. I know it is an area many of those in the church I serve are facing this week. Unmanaged stress can be destructive to your marriage, children, etc. I pray God gives you unique ways to deal with your stress.
Pastor Andrew Huson