This past Sunday marked my third year as pastor at RiverCity Church.The following is a list of the top 10 things I've learned as a Lead Pastor:
10 - Sunday mornings do not determine my self-worth.
An older pastor once said to me, "Andrew, remember this one thing. It will help you a lot. You are not as good as your best Sunday, and you are not as bad as your worst Sunday." As a pastor, it is easy to base your self-worth on Sunday performance. If you have a great Sunday, you feel like the most successful man. If you have a bad Sunday, you feel like the world's biggest failure. I have learned to defeat this emotional roller coaster by embracing #10.
9 - Always drink a cup of coffee, but never drink two.
On Sunday mornings, I always stop and get a small coffee from Panera Bread. One Sunday, I decided to skip coffee. I ended up preaching at half-speed the first service and almost fell asleep during the second service. The following Sunday, I drank too much coffee and preached a fast sermon with jitters. One Panera coffee is just enough to get you through two services.
8 -Great preaching doesn't build great churches, but great leadership does.
Preaching is extremely important to pastoring, but there is more to it than that. I discovered that what I do Monday through Friday is just as important as what I do on Sunday. Leading my staff, inspiring my leaders, balancing the budget, communicating vision, and spending time with people are essential to building a quality church.
7 - Keeping paced.
I carefully schedule my week to include study time, business, people, and rest. I want to pastor for 40 years, not four. I must include rest and recreation to meet my long-term goal.
6 - Have good friends.
I am blessed to be surrounded by strong friendships. These friendships did not just happen, but they were personal investments. Friends keep me balanced, grounded, and relaxed.
5 - Involve my family.
My kids are a part of my ministry. I make it a point to involve them in what I do so they never feel like they have to compete for my attention. They love coming and being involved.
4 - Listen to my wife.
There are times my wife has better insight than me. She was not raised in a pastor's home so she sometimes has a different perspective. She made me change the color of the church sign. It would have been ugly if I did not consider her opinion. Good thing I listened.
3 - Take risk.
Nothing of value comes without risk. I cannot settle for comfort, but I need to know how to operate in faith and some discomfort. Everything from increasing staff members, purchasing a building, to adding a Sunday service involved taking a risk.
2 - Not everyone is going to like me.
I cannot base my self-worth on whether or not people like me. Some people will not like my style, personality, decisions, messages, etc. My job is not to be liked, but to accomplish God's plan for my life. I am okay if people leave my church because they don't like me. I no longer take it personally. I only want the approval of ONE - God.
1 - Be myself.
What you see is what you get. I would be miserable if I tried to be someone else. Who I am at the pulpit is the same as who I am on my day off. I think the church prefers someone who is genuine over someone fake or rehearsed. It's better to connect with real people than phonies.
I believe these 10 lessons I learned can apply to just about everyone, such as a business man or woman, government worker, construction worker, college student, or office assistant. I look forward to learning and sharing more in the years to come.
Always Growing,
Pastor Andrew Huson